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]]> Comment on Guest Blog: Sue Scheff page1 by Rebecca Jacoby http://3vlearning.com/guest-blog-sue-scheff-page1#comment-44 Rebecca Jacoby Tue, 09 Aug 2011 14:48:39 +0000 http://3vlearning.com/?p=1698#comment-44 Hello, Sue, Sometimes understanding what lies behind the bullying behavior helps. We've worked with at-risk kids for over 50 years. <a href="http://lakesideconnect.com/bullying-report/" rel="nofollow">http://lakesideconnect.com/bullying-report/</a> Hello, Sue,

Sometimes understanding what lies behind the bullying behavior helps. We've worked with at-risk kids for over 50 years. http://lakesideconnect.com/bullying-report/

]]> Comment on Guest Blog: Sue Scheff page1 by Nancy Fox-Kilgore http://3vlearning.com/guest-blog-sue-scheff-page1#comment-43 Nancy Fox-Kilgore Wed, 03 Aug 2011 07:13:18 +0000 http://3vlearning.com/?p=1698#comment-43 The comments are very practical and will prevent abuse. <a href="http://ow.ly/5TMQP" rel="nofollow">http://ow.ly/5TMQP</a> <a href="http://www.siblingbullies.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.siblingbullies.com</a> <a href="http://www.siblingbullies.com/blog" rel="nofollow">http://www.siblingbullies.com/blog</a> National Trainer on Bullying & Sibling Abuse The comments are very practical and will prevent abuse. http://ow.ly/5TMQP
http://www.siblingbullies.com http://www.siblingbullies.com/blog

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]]> Comment on Guest Blog: Sue Scheff page1 by Julia Hughes http://3vlearning.com/guest-blog-sue-scheff-page1#comment-42 Julia Hughes Tue, 02 Aug 2011 22:00:58 +0000 http://3vlearning.com/?p=1698#comment-42 Bullying is nothing new, but home used to be safe. More and more this is less and less the case as cyberbullying hits the headlines on a weekly basis. At over 6' tall, both my kids are past this stage now. But I found the quickest route to break the cycle was to confront the bully's parents. I went in softly, not accusing their kids of anything, just a gentle comment along the lines of "I'm sure your sweet little daughter is only teasing, but it's making my son a bit uncomfortable, could you please have a mother/daughter chat with her and let her know that what she finds funny, others may find intimidating." This often works on two levels, flattering their parenting skills & making them your confidant. Bullying doesn't stop when you leave school. This weekend my son returned from a barbeque laughing about how some of the group had 'ripped' some guy & his Thai wife. Did I 'rip' him? You bet. Tell your kids that bullying in any form at any age is never acceptable. Let them know you'll be disappointed in them if they do rag the outsider. Let them know there's no shame in telling someone if they feel threatened or sidelined because of bullying. Never allow yourself to be bullied; the next person your bully tries it on with might not be so thick skinned so if you feel someone is trying to intimidate, let them their behaviour verges on bullying and is unacceptable. Julia Bullying is nothing new, but home used to be safe. More and more this is less and less the case as cyberbullying hits the headlines on a weekly basis. At over 6' tall, both my kids are past this stage now. But I found the quickest route to break the cycle was to confront the bully's parents. I went in softly, not accusing their kids of anything, just a gentle comment along the lines of "I'm sure your sweet little daughter is only teasing, but it's making my son a bit uncomfortable, could you please have a mother/daughter chat with her and let her know that what she finds funny, others may find intimidating." This often works on two levels, flattering their parenting skills & making them your confidant.
Bullying doesn't stop when you leave school. This weekend my son returned from a barbeque laughing about how some of the group had 'ripped' some guy & his Thai wife. Did I 'rip' him? You bet.
Tell your kids that bullying in any form at any age is never acceptable. Let them know you'll be disappointed in them if they do rag the outsider. Let them know there's no shame in telling someone if they feel threatened or sidelined because of bullying. Never allow yourself to be bullied; the next person your bully tries it on with might not be so thick skinned so if you feel someone is trying to intimidate, let them their behaviour verges on bullying and is unacceptable.
Julia

]]> Comment on Guest Blog: Sue Scheff page1 by FranImp http://3vlearning.com/guest-blog-sue-scheff-page1#comment-41 FranImp Mon, 01 Aug 2011 19:39:08 +0000 http://3vlearning.com/?p=1698#comment-41 Thank you so much for your response. Yes, please feel free in addressing my concern with Mrs. Scheff. I really appreciate your attention to this. Please let Mrs. Scheff know that I think her blog is very important and covers a topic that should be discussed in every home. I respect her work and look forward to her response. Best regards, Fran Thank you so much for your response. Yes, please feel free in addressing my concern with Mrs. Scheff. I really appreciate your attention to this. Please let Mrs. Scheff know that I think her blog is very important and covers a topic that should be discussed in every home. I respect her work and look forward to her response. Best regards, Fran

]]> Comment on Guest Blog: Sue Scheff page1 by FranImp http://3vlearning.com/guest-blog-sue-scheff-page1#comment-40 FranImp Mon, 01 Aug 2011 18:58:53 +0000 http://3vlearning.com/?p=1698#comment-40 ***Pardon my error, I meant..."is there a way that this contradiction can be changed (or rewritten)?" Thank you!! Fran ***Pardon my error, I meant…"is there a way that this contradiction can be changed (or rewritten)?" Thank you!! Fran

]]> Comment on Guest Blog: Sue Scheff page1 by 3V_Admin http://3vlearning.com/guest-blog-sue-scheff-page1#comment-39 3V_Admin Mon, 01 Aug 2011 18:57:06 +0000 http://3vlearning.com/?p=1698#comment-39 Fran, we are really so very happy for comments such as yours that not only indicate having earnestly read the material but takes the time to make a great observation. With this being a contributed piece, we certainly wouldn't attempt to speak for the author, Mrs. Scheff, but we will respectfully mention what we've picked up from the parts you referenced. As stressed in our 3V Bullying Prevention course "Youth Bullying: Understanding to Prevention", bystander empowerment we believe to be a crucial part of the equation in having a real and broad impact on the bullying issue. We make a sharp distinction, however, between standing in defense of the victim - physically if necessary - and going on the offensive, becoming the aggressor and challenging the bully physically. This is always ill-advised in our view. It seems to us there was an important distinction Mrs. Scheff was making; standing up in defense of a victim does not have to mean becoming the aggressor. This is our take, and we hope you won't mind our addressing your concern with those points of the blog. Who knows, perhaps Mrs. Scheff will stop by and join the conversation. You never know! Thanks so much, and we hope you will indeed share the blog with your colleagues. All the Best, The 3V Learning Team Fran, we are really so very happy for comments such as yours that not only indicate having earnestly read the material but takes the time to make a great observation. With this being a contributed piece, we certainly wouldn't attempt to speak for the author, Mrs. Scheff, but we will respectfully mention what we've picked up from the parts you referenced.

As stressed in our 3V Bullying Prevention course "Youth Bullying: Understanding to Prevention", bystander empowerment we believe to be a crucial part of the equation in having a real and broad impact on the bullying issue. We make a sharp distinction, however, between standing in defense of the victim – physically if necessary – and going on the offensive, becoming the aggressor and challenging the bully physically. This is always ill-advised in our view.

It seems to us there was an important distinction Mrs. Scheff was making; standing up in defense of a victim does not have to mean becoming the aggressor. This is our take, and we hope you won't mind our addressing your concern with those points of the blog.

Who knows, perhaps Mrs. Scheff will stop by and join the conversation. You never know! Thanks so much, and we hope you will indeed share the blog with your colleagues.

All the Best,
The 3V Learning Team

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